I'm actually getting really upset by this.Why,oh why,don't HVs/Dr's tell you that when you breast feed in the long term you are going to end up with manipulative,militant,spoilt and brattish toddlers that will do ANYTHING to get you to feed them when you want to stop.
I AM DESPERATE!!
It doesnt help that ds2 co-sleeps with us so has titty available whenever he wants and also associates going to sleep with boob-I know I have made my bed..I just wish I knew where to begin.
Do I concentrate on cutting out the night feeds?
Do I concentrate on the day feeds that get him asleep?
Or the loads of comfort feeds he demands whenever he is upset/bored/whatever in the day?
Do I get him in his cot first?
He takes bottles of cows milk from dh when Im at work in the evenings and weekends-he will nick ds1 bottles from him-he will take a few glugs of bottles I give him but on his terms,picking it up when he wants, not when I give it to him.
I am at my wits end and am pulling my hair out now-I would give anything to leave him with someone for a few days if I thought he would forget about my milk at the end of it-could this work?
Ive asked you all similar questions before but now there is an urgency about it as I cant bear his endless screams when I refuse him-I leave him or cuddle him as much as possible but it doesnt work-he just crys and crys and crys and its driving everyone else in the house crazy-I feel like everyone is blaming me for doing it this long and I'm getting my just just rewards!
Sorry to ramble but this is making me really depressed-I'm crying and shouting about it everyday-its also playing havoc with my menstrual cycle with periods coming and going whenever they want-Ive just started one two weeks after finishing! Hormones are obviously buggered.
PLEASE HELP ME!
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dropinthe · 26/04/2005 09:29
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