I feel wrong and ashamed for putting this inbetween stories of genuine losses, but I had an abortion 18 months ago and its left me very traumatised. Ive tried commiting suicide (not cries for help) a few times (took too little, then too much and just threw up for 24 hours), and have been on medication (ADs, sleeping pills, diazepam) until I became pregnant again ,and have gone onto beta blockers now because im breastfeeding. I have seen a physchiatrist and pyschologist (cant spell!) but they brushed it aside and diagnosed me with PND (which was an insult really). This was about 5 months after the abortion. I spent about £1000 on seeing them to do silly breathing exercises for the panic attacks I was getting. They said Id done the right thing (i was 18- the only reason I can think of) and said I shouldnt get pregnant. I also have trouble sleeping with my partner and the psychiatrist said he'd leave me without sex! Because of this ive never seeked anymore help - nothing is going to change what I did and most days I really cant cope with it. Last night I flipped again and just walked out the door and sat in a field until about midnight hoping id be murdered or something. I really cant get over it.
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