I'm sobbing into the keyboard, I really am at my wits end. dd is 4 and has only recently started to sleep through consistently (prior to that she would wake in the night at least a couple of times a week). Bedtime though is another matter entirely. Tonight I almost lost it with her and have frightened myself. She is strong willed and we have to deal with her a bit differently because of that (trying to avoid continual confrontation). We have always been consistent with bedtime ie wind down, bath, story, bed. Our problems now start at wind down time when she refuses to do anything she's asked and then goes on to do exactly the opposite. Everything then escalates. I managed to defuse things successfully tonight, get her into bed and read the story. The calm didn't last, she wouldn't stay in bed, hit me, tried to bite me and I lost the plot. dh is upstairs at the moment and all is quiet. We can't carry on like this, it's getting worse and I have no idea what to do to help her.
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I'm at the end of my tether, dd's bedtimes are just getting worse and worse and I feel such a failure
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northender · 19/07/2009 20:10
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