yes I know its none of my business and she can spend it how she likes!!
But they are skint properly skint, she works hard but not paid a lot, her DH has been out of work most of this year, and she regularly complains how skint they are and worries about paying the mortgage!
We usually have a night out a week just dinner and movies, which we havent done for ages as she hasnt been able to afford it (which is fine as I am pretty skint to!)
However today we have been talking about xmas, and I said am going to have to really cut it down this year!!
She says me too, but then says she has already spent £150 on an ipod touch for her 16 yr old DS and £50 on a jacket, and so put £200 cash away for her 17 yr old DD1, so will just get them a few extra "bits" each , and then says she needs to spend the same on her DD2 who is 8 (same as my DD1), and will get her the huge sylvanian family hotel and a few DS and Wii games!!
Blimey I am in shock , and am wondering how much she normally spends if that is cutting down, I wasnt planning on spending any more than £100 max on DD1 and have been saving my tesco vouchers for the double amounts for toy shopping, and wasnt planning a lot at all on DD2 (who will be 2)!
Am I out of touch, is that a huge amount on shite toys for children, she reckons a thousand pounds will cover the children , they worry about paying their mortgage, they havent had a holiday for years, am just shell shocked I think!!
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to think my BF is spending a ridiculous amount on xmas presents??
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macdoodle · 09/11/2009 16:26
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