Right, let me give you the full story. My DS came out of school today, hardly able to breathe, really upset and unable to talk. His teacher said he and another boy (both boys are fairly gently and not fighters) had had a fight in the cloakroom and my DS started it. I asked my DS what had happened, but he was so upset he was unable to talk.
After we got home and he calmed down he told me his version of what had happened. He was singing in the cloakroom and the other boy punched him for singing (which is unlike this boy as far as I'm aware, my DS says he isn't usually like that). Anyway, the other boy punched my DS again and then my DS had had enough so kicked him, then the other boy punched my DS again. One teacher then came into the cloakroom and saw my DS on the floor, and the other boy told her my DS started it. Now I know I wasn't there so didn't see what happened and I don't live in cloud cuckoo land and believe my DS is a complete angel. Neither did any teachers see what happened. However, my DS is really in a state about going to school tomorrow as the teacher has told him he's got to see the headteacher.
I've never been told of him hitting/fighting any other children. I know my son and he is generally gentle and I'm sure I would know if he was a hitter/kicker. If his version is true, part of me thinks good on you for sticking up for yourself (although I know the teachers wouldn't like you to say that). So I've told him if someone hits him he needs to tell the teachers then he can't be blamed for something he hasn't done.
But it also seems over the top if he has to go the headteacher for one incident rather than the teacher dealing with it, as I've never been called into the school or been told he's hurt anyone before. Plus there have been incidents when my DS has been hit and I know the child who did that didn't have to go to see the headteacher.
He's also told me he won't be having his golden time on Friday (where they get to play rather than do lessons). I think that's fair enough punishment for kicking back but to see the headmaster seems OTT.
What are others opinions?
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to think it OTT to send a 6 year old to the headteacher for a scuffle/fight?
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SingleMum01 · 14/10/2009 19:07
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