I have a friend who is in the politest term clingy. I?ve always known she was a bit odd, but felt sorry for her as she doesn?t have many friends, and when she first started working at the company I am at, we were in a male dominated department, and she clashed with the few other females there.
To give you an example, I work away from the office on a frequent basis and will occasionally only be in the office 1 or 2 days a month, she'll book lunches in my diary for those days and get really stroppy if I suggest anyone else joins us.
Recently I had a lovely presentation from work as I'm off on my maternity leave in 2 days and she was out of the office when the card did the rounds her comment was "I can't believe they never got me to sign it, especially as I'm your only friend in the office" (she was really upset by this and sent me a 2 page email) Now I have lots of friends in the office and have always been generally well liked.
When I fell pg she had just split up with her bf of several years, as she didn't want children and he did, but once she found out I was pg, she started saying she wanted children and tried desperately tried to get back together with her bf, but he wasn?t interested.
Because I knew I wasn?t doing too well with my pg, she was the first I told, basically I didn?t want her to think me saying, ?I can?t do lunch as I?ve been throwing up all day? was a lame excuse, because otherwise she would then phone and rant at me for ages. Her first comment when she found out was ?well you could always have a termination.? She knows I?ve had two miscarriages so why on earth would she say something like that.
She has now been dating a number of people she has met on websites and is from what I?ve been told is ?putting out? on the first date and deliberately piercing the condoms so she may fall pg.
And she has, in quite a threatening manner, said to me you better let me know when you plan your second one so we can be pg at the same time.
Sorry this post is dragging so I?ll get to the point?.
In the last few weeks she?s made comments about stealing my baby when she?s born (due in 4 weeks) and made some comment about watching my back when about a month ago there was the news story about a pregnant woman who had been killed and her unborn baby cut out of her.
Should I be worried about these comments, am I over reacting to something that I should be seeing as a joke?
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NewbeeMummy · 24/09/2009 12:28
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