asking if I am going to go for a third??? I know people have complained about this before but I am feeling so annoyed. Found out yesterday that DC2 is going to be a boy. Already have the cutest, most adorable DS1 ever (I know, I know, I am his mum afterall! ) and am pleased that we will have two boys so close in age (20 months). Pregnancy first time was a nightmare involving high risk nuchal, two CVS tests, heart scans, growth scans, you named it, we had it. So for us to end up with a very healthy and happy DS, we know we are very lucky! So far, this pregnancy looks healthy and non-problematic so far and as long as the bubba is healthy, I couldn't care less about the gender.
DH and I only ever want two. Yes, would be nice to have a girl but personally for me, it would be nicer to have two of the same gender. DH and I both have siblings of opposite gender and 4/5 years gap so never felt very close to them. In fact, I have female cousins I grow up with that I consider my 'sisters' and god knows how much I wished they were my real sisters growing up!
So it really annoys me when we told the inlaws yesterday after the scan about the news, and said how pleased I was to be having two boys who will (hopefully) be close and play together. MIL's reactions ranged from 'oh, how are you going to cope with two boys?' and when I said it would be nice for DS1 to have a brother to play with, she said 'oh, a girl would play with DS1 too! And they fight over toys too blah blah blah!' It just gets my goat up as inlaws are the sort to believe their way is ALWAYS the right way. MIL is always going on about how lucky she is to have one of each. Argh, I just want to grab her and shake her and say sarcastically to her 'and look how close they are to each other now...' BUT I CAN'T!
Of course, then there's the reactions that go 'you must try for a third for a girl!' Or that pitying 'don't you want a mini-me?' Uh, not exactly, one me is enough, thanks! I do love my boy and would be very lucky to have two of them! Help me come up with the right retorts to these comments! I can see myself facing years of this ahead of me... (and yes, please tell me nice stories of having two boys close in age!)
Rant over...
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