Today after school, me and the DS's went to my mams (who had collected my 5 year old neice from school as well). My sister (DN's mam) was there when we got there. The kids went to go play in their toy room come bedroom that my mam has there for them. As usual DS2 (3) and DN were winding each other up, DS2 has SN and thinks its funny as he gets a reaction out of DN. I always try and tell him its wrong and not to do it, and usually he is good once he gets over the excitement. DN does sometimes go out her way to get DS2 to wind her up (lies on the floor so he jumps on her, smacks him then runs away, pretends to cry)
Anyway, DS2 starts screaming in pain, and all I can hear is DN saying "I didn't mean it" and then starting to cry hysterically herself. DS2 comes through really crying his heart out followed by DS1, who tells me that DN has bit DS2. Sure enough on DS2's back there is a very nasty bite mark, all purple and you can see about 6 teeth marks from both top and bottom teeth.
While I'm trying to calm Ds2 down, DN runs in all upset and instead of my sister telling her off, she gets a big huge cuddle and told "There, there. It's ok"
No its not bloody ok! She is 5 years old and has just bit my DS2!
After a few word with each other, its clear that she thinks it was probably just what Ds2 deserved, as he is always winding DN up. Now DS3 might be an annoying little boy, but he has never marked her by biting/nipping smacking her!
AIBU to think that my sister could have at least told DN that it was wrong to bite and that by cuddling her it's showing her otherwise?
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to be annoyed at my sisters attitude towards her daughters behaviour?
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5inthebed · 17/06/2009 21:46
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