I bought DD a nintendo DS for her 6th birthday in August and gave her a long talk about responsibility and not losing it, having a place in the house where she keeps it so that her brother can't break it etc.
DS has been missing since Monday. It was in the house on Monday morning and not here by the afternoon. She said (only after 5 days of searching high and low) that she took it in the car to Tesco with us on Monday. I don't think she did because I'm sure she asked and I said, no, leave it at home. Tescos do not have it, I have torn the house apart looking for it and have no more ideas where it is.
Am I being unreasonable in being furious about this? I have an incredibly busy time at the moment doing my masters with 2 young children and having a dying father. I'm fed up, shattered and frankly furoius that I'm having to spend time doing this when I literally have no time to call my own whatsoever. DH says I'm blaming her for my frustration by being so cross with her. I say that I'm cross because we've had long talks about taking responsibility and she ignored them.
I've bought on my mum's behaf 2 DS games for Christmas for her, but I'm still paying for the original DS so no chance of replacing it. I'll have to send back these games from my mum when they arrive from Amazon and Amazon are shit at taking returns. It's another thing I have to fit in.
What should I do?
- Never let her have another DS?
- Take away a privilege from her (like puding or story time)
- Ignore it.
HELP!!!!