Ok - just wanted to check if it's me going mad or is this a tad strange. Short version. Bil has a dog (cute and wouldn't hurt fly but barky and chases cats) and we have a cat (scared stiff of dogs) Bil had conversation with dh re: visiting us (1 1/2 hr journey) and apparently they 'dont leave the dog in the house on her own thank you very much' or words to that effect and said that they would expect to bring her when they visit us. Dh said, no sorry cat would be terrified so not convenient - please can you find a neighbour to walk/visit dog for the day when visit (generally from 12 ish til 6pm) BIL has said 'well we won't be visiting you again then will we' and obviously feels dh is being unreasonable. I am slightly aghast at this - surely the house rules of the house being visited come first? I wouldn;t dream of saying the same if it was the ther way round. They have visited before WITH the dog bit this was before we got the cat (and we were never asked if we minded....)
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Or rather is dh? Visting without a dog is apparently impossible.....que?
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cluckyagain · 29/10/2008 11:53
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