Well, I think I am in part, but not completely.
DD had slightly dodgy bowels yesterday, but not diahorrea (ie no urgency, just very splattery and went 3 times in a day when she normally goes less than once a day), and was very, very slightly sick in the night - she may have even coughed herself sick rather than spontaneously barffed, not sure.
She was a little tired this morning but showed no other signs of poorliness, bowels seemed back to normal, everything seemed fine.
I had to speak to the childminder this morning as we were going a bit late and might have had to drop her at a playgroup instead of at her house. Stupidly I mentioned that she was under the weather, and CM said 'better stay on the safe side, as the other two children are going on holiday'.
Now, I work part time, am losing a day's work this week anyway as DP is away and he has her one of my days, and I'm massively backed up at work (which is a big deal as I'm the manager of, well, everything). If I thought DD had something she could pass on, I wouldn't have hesitated to keep her home.
But to be asked to keep her away because of the other kids? This childminder is usually quite rational about illness - colds and coughs, no problem, unidentified spots only after GP has checked, obviously rampant diseases, stay away. All find and sensible as far as I'm concerned.
The reason I'm feeling hard done by is that she'd be taking the other two to playgroup where they could pick up anything anyway, and it seems a bit weird to protect them from something that wasn't obviously a bug anyway, and that looked like it was over in less than 12 hours. Kids go to her with streaming colds and hacking coughs, and surely that would spoil someone's holiday more than a 12 hr bug?
Also - I know the other parents haven't ever shown us the same consideration.
It just seems a bit of an overreaction on the CMs part. I accept that I'm a bit nonchalent about germs, but the other two kids are older than DD (who is 2.25) and pretty robust, it's not like there were tiny babies around to catch anything.
I do appreciate this may sound selfish, but it's the inconsistency that is bugging me, rather than the action itself I think.
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Mij · 22/10/2008 15:11
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