I have a friend who confides in me about her abusive marriage, She talks to me quite openly and I advice her but she is still with her husband. He is emotionally abusive and controlling.
I have another friend who I am really close to and being hypocritical have told her some of the incidents to get advice as I don’t know what to do on my other friends behalf I’m quite worried about her.
The one I’ve asked for advice has rang the police and told them what I have told her. It has really pissed me off that she has done this, now I’m worried my friend won’t tell me anything again and it will cause a big mess. The friend can’t seem to understand why I’m so pissed off as she has said it’s the husband that’s in the wrong but I’m trying to protect my friend by letting her come to me and have a person to talk to so I know what’s going on, if I was ever terrified or worried she’d be hurt I’d tell her to ring the police myself. Aibu? Will the police pursue this without the abused friend doing so herself?
I will never tell this friend anything again, she was so blatant about the way she went about it.
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Friend has broke my trust with confidential issue
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Wotsits4357542 · 25/05/2020 21:03
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