The other evening I was at an adult education class and there was an issue. So I have a “who was being unreasonable”
Person A and person B were chatting in their own language during the class and person C complained about it.
The thing is we are a very chatty class, and person A claimed racism due to it being a foreign language and that no one else had been named as being a distraction. The tutor shut the issue down quickly and stressed the “distraction” aspect of it, but I got the impression that the “foreign language” aspect was what person C had the real issue with (if it makes a difference the conversation A and B were having was nothing to do with the class we are taking)
I am neither A, B or C but now feel really uncomfortable by the division in the class because of this.
Also I can see both sides of the division. I was raised that to exclude people when you are all part of a group is rude (is this a cultural thing though?), but then if English isn’t your first language and you live in an English speaking country, I imagine it’s nice to be able to chat in your native language.
So who was BU?
AIBU for A&B
AINBU for C
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Talking in your native language, is it acceptable in a group?
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AllDruggedUpWithNowhereToGo · 14/02/2020 13:48
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Am I being unreasonable?
256 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
39%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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