AIBU to ask advice on how I could try to help my friend and her children? (Or should I leave well alone?!).
My friend has always been naturally slim and able to eat whatever she wants all the time. She doesn't eat like a pig, but just never needed to consider it.
She and her DH have 2DDs, one 4 and one 7. DD7 is very overweight for her age and DD4 is getting to be like that too. They're very happy girls and all have a lovely home life.
Problem is, friend only feeds them utter crap all the time. And let's them (encourages them) to snack all through the day too. A lot of times they'll be happily playing or watching tv or whatever and she'll just randomly bring them chocolate or milkshake or crisps etc.. when they've not even said they're hungry or thirsty. This goes on after dinner time too - right up until just before they go to bed.
I have no children and dont profess to be super knowledgable on it, but I can physically see they're struggling with being so overweight and I worry about how they'll deal with it as they get older and into an age where it will.mean a lot more to them than it does now.
How do I help, should I even? Should i just leave it alone as it's none if my business? Help me please. They're some of my dearest friends and the girls are like family to me.
*also before anyone jumps in on the DH bashing and asking where he is in all this, he works nights and my friend does all the cooking - it just works for their family and that's not even an issue.
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Friends' kids eat crap - Can I help?
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FatAndFurious7 · 15/09/2019 16:07
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