So husband earns £1200/ month
I usually earn £1800/month, but I've currently got a temporary contract giving me £2100/ month (this is only for 12 months, then my wage goes back to normal)
Husband keeps asking me for money to do his hobbies, even before my temporary wage increase. Since the wage increase its more frequent.
For household bills and shopping etc. he puts in £600/month, I do £1200/ month. The idea of this was that we would both have £600/month to spend on ourselves/ treats etc.
Last year we agreed I would pay the balance on the holiday for next year, and he would cover spending money. Now he says he can afford maybe half of spending money and I'll need to pay the extra.
In December I put £500 towards new equipment for his hobby, with the agreement he would do extra work around home improvements instead of me doing it. He hasn't done any of this yet.
In January he asked to borrow £150 and said he would pay back £50 in Feb, March and April. I haven't yet received anything.
He has now asked for £50 to go towards a new tattoo this weekend (that has been booked for months) as without it he wouldn't be able to add to his savings.
I couldn't tell you the last time I bought anything for myself. My £600 goes on him, the house, DC, extra shopping, fuel etc. I haven't had new clothes since before I was pregnant with DC who is now 1. I have an extra bill of £250 this month due to career requirements (unable to claim back through work).
Wibu to say no chance is he getting any more money? I want to not have to take out of savings every month and be left with hardly anything when it's because he's spending all my money on him and putting his into his savings.
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To think husband should stop asking for money?
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Alwaysmoney · 28/03/2019 17:06
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