Spoke to my cousin about my son problems and her reply really upset me, but then I'm wondering am I being a slow flake ?!
I have 2 boys, my youngest 8 has got moderate to severe eczema and a few months ago has been diagnosed with Development Language disorder and goes to special classes twice a week . He is delayed academically too. He also has a ENT referral as speech therapist said his voice seems too husky etc .
My older boy 11 is fine with none of these issues.
Both eczema and development language disorder (DLD) are due to genetics. They is environmental influences but the foundations are genetics.
DLD arises from genetic influences on early brain development. We don’t know enough about specific genes to have a biological test for language disorder.
My Cousin then said "wow a child with both genetics problems and possible ent issues now !! You and your oh are a wrong mix!"
She then said as we're cousins any future kids she is worried she have a child like my 8 year old.
Am I being over sensitive? I think it hurt as it is a bit true, our genetics on our son have caused him to have these problems, not just one but a few. I'm also glad we stopped at two cos would future kids have these problems
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Pauperlil · 27/03/2019 10:25
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