One of my friends is always lecturing me on how I need to get a life, make time for myself, make the effort to meet a new partner, take time out and so on and so forth. I appreciate the sentiment but the reality is I have an 11 year old who's clingy due to emotional abuse from her father, a 5 year old who has HFA, a 4 year old who is diabetic and possibly has ADHD/PDA, a 1 year old who's still breastfeeding. I work from home at night and make a pittance. I can't work during the day at the moment due to my caring responsibilities and the reality of childcare costs for 4 DC.
I don't like the idea of leaving the DC with a babysitter but even if I did, I can't because of the various issues detailed above. I have no family support at all. It's really beginning to grate on me that my friend keeps telling me all about her trips to the gym, people she's met, nights out she's planning and rolling her eyes like I'm being a martyr when I say it isn't an option for me right now. AIBU to give her short shrift if she starts with the same conversation when I see her tomorrow?
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Friend telling me to 'get a life' - AIBU to tell her to get fucked?!
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HelenLaBloodyAnnoyed · 18/03/2019 22:29
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