Hello.
I've name changed for this as I'm so ashamed. I am a single mother with beautiful young children. An old friend contacted me via fb over 3 years ago and we began what I can only describe as an emotional affair. I think I was vulnerable and needed the company.
Any way fast forward and 2 years ago I loaned him nearly £6000 - I am so trusting and he did say he would return it. But he has only returned £500. But I was so deeply in love with this man I didn't care
Money was not important he was.
Late last year I went to visit.him abroad even though it was so hard for me. I stayed with him for 2 weeks and we had the most amazing time together. I slept with.him and he even asked me to be in a long term relationship. I was so happy. The first time we had sex he did say to me what's that smell and I laughed saying sometimes there is a smell after sex..
2 days ago I was getting fed up of bring permanently skint and my car gave up on me so I asked him for some cash in a nice email.
He called me very very drunk at night and said that I was annoying him by asking for money knowing he hasn't got it at the moment - I said no it's ok just give it to.me when you have it. He them said that I really smelled down there when we were intimate and that that was proof I was sleeping around with a different man every day !!! He swore at me and called me all sorts if unrepeatable names. I was horrified and told him in no uncertain.terms to do one !!
He blocked.me and told.me to never call him again.
I am so hurt that all my feelings for this man were obviously misplaced and he has been so cruel I will never forgive him . I have been told I'm a beautiful woman and shower everyday amd pride myself on good hygiene. He has humiliated me and made me feel worthless.
I.sent him an email and told him he was an uneducated baffoon and got alot off my chest..but I feel so cheap.
How could I be so stupid. I trusted him intimately after a very long time and he has made me feel like a whore.
Plse tell me I'll get over this. I've been quietly seething for 2 days and desperately want revenge!!!
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Terriblyhurt32 · 12/03/2019 21:15
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