When going out for drinks - tea, milkshake, the sort of thing that involves milk, aibu to assume the go-to milk would be dairy based, unless I mention a dairy intolerance?
I mean 99.9% of places seem to default to cows' milk unless you ask for something else, therefore would you be surprised to be served soy milk in a normal non vegan cafe?
The background: I have on two occasions now asked for a milkshake / yoghurt lassi and been served a soy based drink. I have oral allergy syndrome - only recently diagnosed - and anyway soy is a known allergen. I suffered a lot of discomfort and expressed my surprise that when I asked for milk I was given soy. (I was polite) on the first occasion - about 5 years ago, the lady apologised and said they'd run out of milk (well yoghurt on that occasion) and she didn't charge me. On the second - this year in a different place - the owner seemed very concerned with telling me I hadn't told her I had an allergy. I said it was fine but that I had ordered the same drink the week before and had been given dairy as normal so i hadn't anticipated they would change the recipe without notice.
Would you expect to get milk if you ask for milk or aibu?
For context I'm fine with soy sauce and the soy they add to foods as it is processed.
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DaisyDuvetDays · 22/02/2019 11:02
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