I have read so many threads on here now about "couple problems". Arguments over money, over sex, over household chores. Lets not even start on the infidelity threads! Yes, I understand that those who are in good, harmonious relationships aren't going to post because they don't have problems to post about. Not in their relationship at least. But it seems like living with another adult just means so many compromises. I have lived with a couple of guys in the past (not at the same time obviously!) and yes it is nice to have someone ask how was your day (if they do that is!). Or to chat with. But I can honestly say I am so much happier living alone. I could meet the nicest, most accommodating guy in the world now and I still don't think I would ever want to live with him.
People who post about being lonely, wanting to meet someone etc, in fact people I've know in real life also, will say "I don't want to grow old alone". But this is precisely the time I do want to be alone! I'm 50 this year and I am done with compromising and having to please anyone else but me! One of the guys I lived with was 9 years older than me so he'd be nearly 60 now. His body was already pretty knackered back then from years of manual labour so I doubt he's in great condition now. He was also a total grump (part of the reason we broke up) so, had I stayed with him, I'd be with a grumpy old sod who I would probably end up caring for in old age. No thank you!
AIBU to think that it's exactly easier in many ways to just take care of yourself?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To think it's a lot easier to live alone
73 replies
Asta19 · 22/01/2019 18:30
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.