Okay, so I've always had a few issues with my health visitor. In a nutshell they are;
She has repeatedly said that DS doesn't have additional needs, it's all in my head apparently
Commented on the fact that I'm recieving DLA for him and she thinks I shouldn't be, nearly every meeting since it was awarded
Thinks that I'm either doing drink/drugs or have mental health issues because she's seen me looking 'untidy' on the school run, - she's specifically said that in a report to school
she is repeatedly insistant that she thinks I've got mental health issues, even though both school, paeds, my doctors and every other bugger and their mother has said that I'm fine and present no outward signs of mental issues.
Told school she thinks I'm giving my drug using, alcoholic ex unsupervised access to DD even though I have specifically told her twice I wasn't, the latest time was the friday before a school meeting were all of us were meant to be present on the monday after (she never attended, like usual)
During the meeting at school she sent a list of concerns that were 8+ months old, some of them dating back to before I was pregnant with DD, so a good two years old yet she sent them as if they were current concerns even though I only saw her once in the entirety of 2017
Said that she doesn't think I understand the pead reports because I use the words out of the report in conversation and she thinks I'm parroting them without understanding, even though she knows for a fact that I've been doing this since DS was 18 months
I just really really dislike her, every single visit (the once in 2017 when DD was 4 months, she's now just over 1) for the past two years atleast she's gone on about my mental health and how she thinks I've got issues because I accessed mental health services when I was 16 after my head was used as a ping pong ball between a railing and a wall by my best friend since I was 3.
I've never given her any reason to be concerned, never accessed mental health services since I was 16, occasionally I look a bit messy but I have a 4 year old with an obsession with running his hands in your hair no matter whats on his hands.
Would IBU to complain to PALS about her?
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AIBU to put in a complaint about my HV?
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Queenofthestress · 21/01/2018 10:11
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