Does anyone remember a while back I posted about PILs not travelling to see us for over 18 months... but still expecting us to go to them?
Turns out they’re not coming down, and can’t come down til at least next Summer as they’re saving for a new bathroom.
Yep.
They’re choosing a new bathroom over seeing their son and granddaughter.
BUT they’re still expecting us to go up this xmas despite me now being 5 months preg, 6 hr journey with 2 yr old in tow.
DH hasn’t really spoken to them since this revelation. I don’t think he is too happy about it, but I know deep down he wants to see them and for them to see DD.
I’m now stuck between a rock and a hard place, I don’t want to be the wife that refuses to go, but on the other side, why should we keep having to go to them all the time??
AIBU?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Tell them to go F themselves?
68 replies
bettydraper31 · 04/12/2017 13:24
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.