Having some work done at home. There's been a few instances previously of people coming in, doing a job badly and then either refusing to come back and resolve it, or taking forever to do so.
The current tradesmen agreed a price for their work and a time scale.
Today my partner if I can call him that, we don't live together but it's a LTR, who's at my house to pay them and check it's all completed ok (my money, but i had to be at work) calls me and says oh, something's gone wrong/ they've got the wrong equipment, so they want to finish now (3 hours early), come back another time. They wanted paying most of the price agreed now, the balance and another £150-200 when they came back as their additional labour cost.
I obviously wasn't elated with this, and asked what the issue was and why they hadn't factored this in. We has agreed a price which they were now going beyond for something that was their error. Also what guarantee did I have they would come back. He'd not asked when they were planning to come back.
I said I wasn't happy to pay them anything. He says well what am I supposed to do? I asked him what he'd do...its not about him apparently. And I was having a go at him and speaking to him rudely.
I wasn't. I was annoyed and upset and asking perfectly reasonable questions. Given my past experience of poor work men, people disappearing half way on a job, which he well knows, i was trying to protect myself and my home.
In the end I spoke to the workmen. It is their error. They are charging me for extra materials but not time, and have agreed a day to return next week. It's not ideal but I felt I had to agree, and the amount is only £100 over.
I feel quite resentful though that my partner just views this as me berating him. We've had conversations recently where he's said I should ask for help more, however this is how it ends up, so I don't like to ask and struggle on myself except when I have no alternative.
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tradesmenwoes · 29/11/2017 16:40
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