So, this has now been going on over three years and I would appreciate some opinions please - am I out of order or is this woman?
I work full time with kids of school age and so we have been using au-pairs for a few years now. As there isn't really a lot of work, we let our au-pairs get additional jobs during the day or weekends, provided that they don't clash with their normal duties.
About three years ago our au-pair at the time found an extra job, helping a couple with a then 2yo child. I wasn't over the moon with this particular job as sometimes the babysitting nights clashed, but we made it work. That au-pair left us after 18 months to start a job in her field.
Our next au-pair was then 'headhunted' so to speak by the same lady again, through getting her number of our previous au-pair. Again, I wasn't massively happy, as it feltrather odd that the same family insisted on using your au-pairs without ever asking us if that was OK, but I let it go again.
Fast forward another year and yet again a new au-pair is 'head-hunted' by this same lady. Moreover, she is now pressuring our au-pair to give her the details of our cleaner, which our au-pair refused to do.
To top things of, she now got my mobile number from our last au-pair and has texted me to give her those contact details and when I politely refused and asked her to look for help elsewhere I got a fairly abusive text back, calling me selfish and saying how difficult I have been with every au-pair that tried to help her.
Am I being unreasonable in thinking I am not her recruitment agency and she should just leave my family alone?
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Yanka · 08/11/2017 13:40
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