My parents have very kindly agree to pay for some tutoring for the dcs (Y10 and 11).
I gave them to the cost of one hour tutoring, the basically multiply that by two (for the two dcs) and then by 4 (4 weeks a month). They also decided to do an automatic transfer (because it's easier for them).
The thing is, most months, the dcs dont get some lessons every week. You have the holidays etc... so it often costs us less than what they give us.
DH seems to think that whatever is left is fair game and can be used to do something. So this summer, he decided that he could use that money to buy xxx. that we wouodntbhave been able to afford otherwise!
I really don't see it like this. This money is for the dcs so I am happy to either spend it on the dcs or to out it aside (eg when we want to by something a bit more expensive at Christmas or for their b'day). But not for Day to day stuff.
IBU to not want to see that money disappear into normal spending and sort ring fence it for the dcs? DH disagrees....
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To think this money isn't family money, it's money for the dcs.
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Pitchounette · 16/10/2017 16:30
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