Hi
I know I probably am being unreasonable but I feel so overwhelmed I just need to let it out!
I've had a friend for many many years. We've eaten at each other house a handful of times, it's just not something we normally do. Anyway last week she text and asked if I was free if she popped in this evening - I said yes assuming "popped in" meant for a cuppa and a chat. Anyway she later text me with the time she would arrive and explained she was coming to my house to kill time whilst waiting to collect her partner from work. I then asked what time she would be collecting him and it turns out she will be here all evening from shortly after I get back from the school run until after my kids bedtime! Obviously this means I have to feed her but it's the middle of the week, I'm not really ready for house guests, everywhere is a mess, I'm worn out from juggling school runs, work and a teething toddler and now I have to entertain her all evening! My partner said I should have just said no but I had t realised that she'd be here so long! I know it's too late to change anything now I just wondered if I'm being unreasonable here? I just think it's really rude ro invite yourself round to someone else's house and expect tea mid week, I wouldn't mind so much on the weekend.
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To be annoyed that friend invited them self to my house for tea?
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Whattodofirst · 04/10/2017 13:07
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