I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what.
4 months ago I joined a gym, absolutely love it and go most days. I was never overweight to start with (just flabby and a bit heavier than I wanted to be!) but in 4 months I've lost a stone in weight and am starting to look quite toned. I have "abs" coming through and have lost a number of inches from my body. I also look healthier and feel so much better. Whenever I mention it to DH he seems uninterested and says I was fine as I was.
As part of my health kick I stopped drinking (was bordering on being alcoholic drinking wine most evenings and getting drunk 3 nights a week at home). I'm still very tempted by it if it's in the house however so I don't buy it. DH however, without fail will suggest we get wine in for the weekend despite me asking him not to tempt me with it. He'll also routinely offer me beer. I cave to the wine but not the beer - so he's taken to buying wine in every weekend.
He also seems to be trying to get me to eat more. Frying everything, bringing me packets of crisps and suggesting takeaways every 5 minutes.
What has tipped my suspicion over the edge is that he's just made a beautiful empire chicken dish with spiced roasties. He called me in to get it and my plate was visibly (and very obviously!) piled up much more that anyone else's - including his own. I questioned him on it ("why have you given me so much more than everyone else?") and he ignored me and said he hadn't. There were over 6 roasties, a chicken leg and a chicken breast on mine. He had 4 roasties and chicken breast.
Whilst I was eating I said "I won't be able to eat all this but it is lovely, do you want some more on yours?". He didn't look at me but said "we'll just sort it out later"??? So when is eaten enough I said "that was lovely! What do you want me to do with this chicken and roasties that are left over?". He said "eat them!"
He knows my goals and why they're important to me. Is he just being thoughtless or is it more sinister?
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To think DH is turning into a "feeder"?
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StickySweatyArseCrack · 17/09/2017 19:25
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