So i've just gone out for a meal with my sister down my new local pub. I've not long come out of a refuge and settled into my new village. This is the first time I've been to the pub and we had a really nice time until the end. I got a phone call from a private number, I dont normally so i answered and apologised to my sister. It was a girl i used to be in the refuge with and she told me she just moved to another. She seemed quite upset telling me her abusive husband had found out stuff and she dont know how. I felt bad being on the phone but was also hard stopping her speaking bluntly as she was upset and doesn't have many friends. I was on the phone for 6 mins. We had finished our meal and drinks so it weren't through the middle of anything. I got off the phone and apologised again but my sister went mental at me, causing a scene and raising her voice. I was so mortified and told her to keep it down, said sorry but she was upset and she's been through alot. I said i would understand if her friend called and was upset and she was on the phone for that amount of time. Even if i was annoyed i would wait until we were outside to say something.
She text our mum straight away, refused to speak to me. And now has gone home. My LB is with his dad and now im all alone feeling rubbish and that they are all against me. Sitting here crying feeling attacked. (I'm currently having counselling for my mums abusive ways growing up). AIBU to feel like she shouldn't have reacted that way? Or at least waited until we got outside. She will now not talk to me for ages or until i beg and say sorry.
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midnightswirls · 12/05/2017 21:09
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