Visited some family with DD today, and I've come away really upset I'm not sure if I'm being oversensitive or overreacting.
A conversation took place and we looked at some old baby pics of their little ones, a comment was made by one of the kids how she was a fat baby in one of the pictures, she then said I was 'fat like you, you were really fat' to which I replied I wasn't a fat baby, she then replied 'no you used to be really fat!!! '
In context I was previously a size 12 (so never really fat , not fat at all!! ) I'm now a size 6 as I have severe IBS
What's upset me as mum and grandma were there and neither told her that was rude or not to say that, even after I repeated it to them in shock. Nothing was said at all apparently that was fine to say to me and not rude etc.
Also what concerns me is I think that must of been said about me by the adults as kids especially under 10s don't tend to remember how someone looked 4 years ago?!
I think if DD ever said that I'd be mortified , I can't believe it was ignored?!
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user1470064958 · 15/04/2017 20:12
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