Good morning, (I'm new to this forum so I do apologise in advance for any mistakes in making this post)
So here's the thing. My DD is nearly 25 this year, with no job, nothing more than a single A level to her name, no intention of finding any sort of work, and I am at my wits end. This has been going on ever since she was 18.
Growing up, she was always very bright - top of her class, straight A grades, etc. Then A levels came along, and she only managed to scrape by with CEU grades. It was extremely shocking to us all. She had a very specific list of universities she wanted to attend, and when she couldn't get into any of them, she refused other life paths because it was (in her words) "embarrassing". Retaking her A levels the following year brought on worse grades.
After that second retake, my DD attempted suicide and it tore my heart to pieces. I really thought I lost her that day, and all those nights spent at the hospital kept me wondering if there was something I did wrong somewhere along the line. I thought my life was over.
So after that incident I treaded very carefully around her. I didn't push her to do anything she didn't want, and I tried to be supportive of whatever idea she had. Recently though, I don't think I can do this any longer. Our arguments about her issues are getting more frequent, and every time I try to get her to do something she cries/says something extremely spiteful and I wonder if this is going to be the day I won't be able to get her back.
Now, I'm seriously considering sending her to her dad's (we are divorced) because I know that he at least will be able to "force" her to attend foundation or the like. Does that seem unreasonable?
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Last straw with DD
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silverpanda · 11/03/2017 09:44
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