I've namechanged for this. DP and I split after 2 and half years. He is now messaging me blaming me for giving him a lifelong STD.
Backstory after 6 months of being together I started to notice things were not right down there. First I had a urine infection, got antibiotics. Antibiotics didn't seem to work, back to Gp, another wee in a bottle showed no urine infection. Then I got BV (never had this before) back to GP more antibiotics. Then my vagina went numb. I had never experienced anything like this before and I knew something wasn't right.
All of this was going on for over a month. I was really worried and asked for a smear test. Smear test came back herpes.
My DP had no symptoms at all. However he tested positive too but continued to have no symptoms.
Fast forward 2 years, he gets extremely slight symptom and it's all my fault.
Prior to this DP and I were both in long term relationships. He recently admitted to cheating on his ex lots of times.
I'm feeling so angry that he has secretly resented me for 2 years, for something that may not been my 'fault'.
AIBU to reply to his message telling him to go fuck himself?
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To be feeling really angry about this
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Nononono1 · 07/03/2017 07:54
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