Dd is 14 (nearly 15) and is in the middle of a complete rage about a party tomorrow night.
I was 14/15 once and know exactly what house parties at this age are like. Dd is very sensible and we do trust her to be sensible but we said a few months back that if she wanted to go to 'that kind of party' our rule was that we would take her and collect her ourselves. She could have a friend to sleep over but could not sleep elsewhere as dh and I want be able to have some sense of what these parties are actually like and to see the aftermath for ourselves. It's not that we don't trust Dd but want to have an understanding of where she is/ what's going on. Worst case scenario, we would bring her home if things looked dodgy/ rowdy when we dropped her off.
The taking/ picking up is not an issue in itself for Dd as we live rurally, as do her friends.
However, she is livid that we won't let her sleep elsewhere after a party. Two other friends are having a sleepover. She Says we don't trust her but I'm just not ready to abandon the reasons why dh and I decided on this stance in the first place.
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PorridgePot · 10/02/2017 17:41
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