It was my bday midweek last week. Me and DH working. So we had a night out wknd before with small group of friends. On my actual bday, I would not see DH (he had to work till midnight) so he cooked bday dinner / we did cake the night before with DCs.
On my actual bday, Around 8.30pm I called DH work re some arrangements. I was told he already left work. I tried to call him and he texted he can't talk will call me later. I got v excited thinking he is on his way home and we can spend nice evening together as kids already in bed. 2h later he was still not home. I felt upset at the time, but had my dinner, caught up on calls/messages and watched some telly. When he arrived back around 10.30pm, I did not question but he admitted he stopped in the pub for an hour to have a drink (on his own) and now we can have a glass of wine together .. He did not understand why I would be upset
AIBU to expect him to spend evening with me on my bday?? We have a lot of issues we are trying to work on btw - and I made quite a big point about being close/spending quality time together few days before that happened...
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Bday AIBU
34 replies
IAmTheBadOne · 01/02/2017 07:17
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.