It was my bday midweek last week. Me and DH working. So we had a night out wknd before with small group of friends. On my actual bday, I would not see DH (he had to work till midnight) so he cooked bday dinner / we did cake the night before with DCs.
On my actual bday, Around 8.30pm I called DH work re some arrangements. I was told he already left work. I tried to call him and he texted he can't talk will call me later. I got v excited thinking he is on his way home and we can spend nice evening together as kids already in bed. 2h later he was still not home. I felt upset at the time, but had my dinner, caught up on calls/messages and watched some telly. When he arrived back around 10.30pm, I did not question but he admitted he stopped in the pub for an hour to have a drink (on his own) and now we can have a glass of wine together .. He did not understand why I would be upset
AIBU to expect him to spend evening with me on my bday?? We have a lot of issues we are trying to work on btw - and I made quite a big point about being close/spending quality time together few days before that happened...
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IAmTheBadOne · 01/02/2017 07:17
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