7 year old DTs went to a party this morning . I dropped them off and none of the parents stayed. Picked them up later and came home.
I've been out this evening and I've come home to find a text on my phone from another parent complaining about DT1
I'm friendly with this mother and our boys used to get on well generally with the odd normal falling out .
DT1 has been spending more time lately with another group of boys he likes to play with.
According to this parent , DT1 was nasty to her son at the party and this is the "final straw " - she is making a complaint to school about my son tomorrow .
My DS also , according to the mother , took her sons cake off his plate and ate it .
I've spoken to DT1 and he said that this boys cake had gone "missing" whilst they were all playing with balloons but he definitely didn't take it - the boy had asked DT1 where it was and DT1 said he didn't know. The boy then cried .
I've asked DT1 what has been happening at school and he says he plays with other boys and often this boy wants to play with DT1 alone and gets upset when DT1 doesn't want to.
For context , we used to have regular play dates with this boy but I stopped encouraging the friendship as whenever he came over he was openly rude and nasty to my DT2. He would also go in constant strops if things didn't go his way and you could never tell if what he was saying was fact or tall tales. He was pretty full on.
He also once alleged my DT1 had punched him in the face at school - horrified , I asked the teacher if this was true and the teacher had said no
DT1 never was invited over to this boys house to play .
That said , I know there is always two sides to every story and I am in no way under the impression that DT1 has been constantly patient and kind with the situation !
I'm friendly with this parent but I'm quite annoyed that she's chosen to message me rather than approach school first !
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ReturnOfTheSausages · 29/01/2017 19:57
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