A friend of ours has invited dh and I round for a meal end of the month. We both have small kids (our ds is 4, dd 2), they have ds also 4, dd aged 2 and another ds 6mo.
We accepted the invite and we're looking forward to it, however it transpires they want us to bring the dc. Both our kids go to bed 7ish and whilst we will keep them up for stuff like weddings or what not, a sit down meal at a friends house isn't something we would ever think to bring such small kids to.
Obviously we assumed their baby would be part of the evening with him being so small, and have said we are happy to wait till their elder son and daughter has gone to bed if that makes life easier - and offered to bring a course with us I should add.
They do seem rather insistent that our sons and their dd will play together while we dine but tbh I know I won't relax. Invariably small kids and late nights are exhausting and dh or I will constantly be on alert for arguments over who had what first and that sort of thing. And dd is an early bird who likes her bed and would be unbearable after 6pm
I'd rather, if kids were involved, all do a day out or meet for lunch.
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To think if it's an evening invite then no kids, surely?
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QuandryQueen · 03/01/2017 12:00
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