My fiancé and I have been together 6 and a half years, we recently bought our own house after renting a flat which had originally been just mine.
His dad lives nearby with his girlfriend whom none of us really get alon with. I do like his dad and for the most part we get along but I won't lie there are times where he irritates the hell out of me.
My fiancé and his dad are very close and since we got the house he has started coming round for a cup of tea most evenings, 4 or 5 times a week. At first it wasn't too bad but now it's wearing on me that after a full day of work a with an hours commute there and back I get home and there's the father in law. There are even times when he'll ring my fiancé who's out but due home and so he'll come round (unannounced to me) before and wait for him.
I've brought this up before that I'm finding it difficult how often he's here but a conversation about him coming round a bit less just ends in a screaming row and now threats to leave me if I won't accept this.
Am I being unreasonable to ask for less dad time?
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To think my partners dad visits too often?
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user1466015966 · 04/10/2016 21:24
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