Ex has moved 3 hours away after promising to get a house locally so that he can see the kids for his '4 nights a month'. Now he wants to stay in my house when I'm away and look after our kids there. BIG FAT NO!! I have worked hard to create a new identity in the house and I don't want to have the kids associating him with our space. He says that if I say no, he won't be able to have them if they refuse to travel to him on the train on his weekends. Please tell me that I'm right to stick to my guns and keep my space mine with the kids? He is, btw very well off and could easily afford a flat near us at the least for the sake of his relationship with our kids.
Argh....
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mummyneedssupport · 19/08/2016 20:21
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