DH has always had a habit of starting lots of DIY jobs and leaving them unfinished, so basically we live permanantly in a tip and I am fucking sick of it! He refuses to get anyone in to do or to finish these jobs and gets pissed off with me if I even suggest it.
He is currently in a bad mood with me because I have said unless he finishes all the jobs he has started within the next month I will be getting decorators/tilers/builders in to finish it all. We can easily afford this, he just wants everything to be on his terms.
Doing it all myself is not an option; I have many strengths but DIY is not one of them. I work full time, do the majority of stuff in the house and with the DC myself, look after my disabled mum, and have neither the time of inclination to start painting or tiling.
And please no one say "At least he does DIY" or that I should be grateful because starting lots of little jobs and leaving them unfinished is far worse than doing no DIY at all, believe me.
AIBU?
To be cross with DH about the state of the house?
BlackberryGrumble · 19/07/2016 09:26
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