Disclaimer: I'm tired, stressed and hormonal so there's every chance AIBU!
DTs (4) have CF, and although they're both generally pretty well, DT1 has been in hospital the last week with a chest infection getting IV antibiotics. Because of the risk of infection, DTs can't have contact with each other when one is ill. My work are very good about it when DTs need hospital admission so I usually stay with whoever is in hospital and DH modifies his hours to look after the other twin and do nursery pick up and drop off etc (we usually do one each).
DH was supposed to be going to a stag do tomorrow and I just assumed he'd have cancelled so one of us could be in hospital with DT1 and other with DT2. He hang cancelled at all and has instead arranged for DT2 to spend the whole day and night with some family friends.
I think this is really irresponsible and inconsiderate! I've barely seen DT2 all week so was hoping we could swap and also recognise that both DTs might be needing some extra support from their parents as they've been missing each other lots.
Weigh in, should I just drop this, or am I right?!
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to assume DH would have cancelled this?
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ElodieS · 10/06/2016 17:23
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