Ok long story short I feel like my partner is emotionally abusing me but I'm not sure if I am just being overly sensitive? Or seeing things where they aren't there.
He will call me fat (I am over weight) and think it's a joke but I have told him it does upset me, he looks at other, much slimmer, younger, prettier women when we are out together and is really obvious about it and he will always make sure I know when he is looking at other women on FB.
When ever he says something nice he will follow it up by looking at his pint and suggesting that he's drunk/something wrong with the beer cause obviously he'd have to be under some influence to say nice things to me. He doesn't say he loves me really, will sometimes text it.
He has some good points and will take me and my kids out for dinner and treat the kids to bits and pieces when we are out. And he does always say he's joking when he says hurtful things.
This morning I asked him to fill my glass with water whilst he was in the kitchen and he only filled it half way (he knows this really annoys me!!). It feels like the last straw.
So AIBU? Or is he being emotionally abusive?? Sorry for epic post!
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AIBU? is he BU? I really can't tell any more!
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makeitpink · 01/05/2016 10:59
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