I've been feeling like this a while and don't even know how to start so bare with me
Me and DP always use to have separate finances which worked for us. He moved in with me and he kept his money I kept mine and paid for everything (I was happy with this) then his contract ended at work and he was out of work, we spoke and decided to join finances I said I could support him as long as he was back in work by a certain date (few months time) but he wasn't barely looked for work wasn't that interested only got a temp job after Christmas when I cried about all the financial stress of it all and sorting presents for my DC and his DC but then he quit after a couple of weeks because he didn't like it. And months later still nothing.
We never have any money which we both hate, he we have a bit left at the end of the month but there's a bill due he'll just rather spend it and forget about the bill which are all in my name I've got debts to pay because of this situation which he doesn't seem bothered about.
I'm feeling resentful of having all the money stress trying to balance everything while he just wants to spend it and then is pissed off if we don't have money to spend and I do everything in the house, the washing the cleaning putting everything away all the shit jobs and I'm just feeling constantly in a mood. I have to balance all of this between working from home having my own DC and running a house. I'm getting to the point of feeling so resentful towards him but I don't know the best way to bring it up without it all exploding into a massive argument
I should add he does have so many good traits and this is the only problem in our relationship
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MoanMoanMoanMoan · 12/04/2016 07:46
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