It's my mum's 70th at the end of this month. There are five of us children (2 are abroad though) and has organised a big party for herself. She'd not asked if we were doing anything for her (and we would have) but just went ahead and invited about 100 people to this party she has done all by herself.
That's ok, but we, the kids (all in our 30s/40s) are a bit upset that she hasn't asked us to do anything but has asked a host of other friends and family (extended) to get involved in singing, organising, music ect. She has got the daughter of a friend making her cake (which my sister had planned to make) and other friends doing the meal.
Ok, so my mum is quite a self centred woman, she enjoys a lot of attention and can get a bit stroppy if that is taken away from her. It's hard to explain really the background, but it's almost like we don't cake her standard.
We feel a bit put out because we feel it makes us look bad, like we haven't done anything when we would have if she hadn't planned it all herself.
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To be a little annoyed at my mum organising her own bday party
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turkeylovessprout · 05/04/2016 19:24
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