As most of us know it is Easter weekend this weekend. I work 9-5.30 Monday to Friday so have a long weekend off. Unfortunately my DP works nights in a call centre and is in all weekend. We have only lightly discussed it, saying that we will do the roast dinner and films and chocolate next weekend instead.
Here is a series of Facebook messages and I want you to tell me which of us is being unreasonable.
ME: urgh i hate PMT!!!!!
Just a general moan (which no, I don't do all the time lol) then a few minutes later I say: Bloody easter holiday on my lonesome. i'm gonna hate christmas this year :( (because DP has found out they are working that too, the easter thing got me thinking about Christmas) everyone will be having their nice lunch on easter sunday and ill be having a sandwich!
DP: I have to work. I know it's shit and I've said sorry. I know you've got pmt but can you not take it out on me
ME: I'm not I'm just moaning !
DP: I feel bad enough as it is, it's not my choice to work
ME: I'm just moaning silly, not taking my mood out on you
DP: Yeah well I took it personally seeing as you know how bad I feel about it
(DP hasn't expressed how bad they feel about working Easter)
ME: so now im in the doghouse for having a moan?!
DP: Pmt is not an excuse to start an argument with me. I'm not replying anymore (Gone offline)
Been together 3 years, live together etc no kids. I just feel its a bit harsh that I am having a moan then am being told off for having a moan and made to feel worse?!
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Who is being unreasonable? Me or DP
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NotGonnaAnswerThePhone · 24/03/2016 15:02
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