Am having a really hard time with DS1 (18) right now. He's left school and got a job which he has lost and not doing enough to get another job - he's been out of work for a month and not helping around the house and his room is a shit tip.
His dad has little contact with him anymore and is not supportive.
I am having a stressful time at work with redundancy etc.
Thing is tonight I blew as his room is a tip
and he is basically been lounging around doing fuck all all day.
Thing is he just goes to his best mates house where his mum (who seems to constantly have loads of teenagers there and isn't too bothered about her own son not working for the last year) feeds him and lets him stay there and he is kind of getting away with this totally self entitled attitude.
AIBU to ask her to be cruel to be kind and tell DS1 he can't stay there every time he doesn't like the rules here?
She's really really not helping me
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AIBU?
To ask this mum not to help?
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Cutecat78 · 02/02/2016 00:45
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