My mother seems to believe this is totally unreasonable behaviour.
DH and I both work FT in demanding, but reasonably well paid jobs. We choose to spend our money on school fees, eating out and holidays.
My mother disapproves. Apparently it is unfair that I send DD and DS to private school, because my sister can't afford to send her DC
I shouldn't spend money on holidays because my house needs decorating. It is a bit shabby and granny-chic, but we're not bothered. At the moment we figure that DD and DS will appreciate the family time they get when we're out together or on holiday more than a beautifully decorated house. Besides, we really enjoy the down time away from work.
My mother lives 180 miles away, and hardly ever visits, so I really don't see that the state of my house is her concern (it is clean - we have a cleaner).
Every time I speak to her she brings this up ('have you started sorting the house out yet? It really needs doing.')
Aaaargh
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OublietteBravo · 20/12/2015 14:15
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