... We are travelling down to the ILs tonight (3 hour journey from say 6pm). DS (16m) will obv be with us. I get this anxiety/fear when we travel long distances if/when he gets upset because I cant get to him to soothe him/give him his bottle or dummy. In the past I have asked DH to pull up as soon as convenient and hopped in the back with DS. I get anxious because somtimes DS has just cried and is unsettable(?) unless I go in the back/retrieve his dummy or bottle.
For the first time we have loaded the tablet with In the Night Garden for him and have a headrest tablet holder thingamy so I am hoping this keeps him occupied.
I am asking because 1. He will hopefully be settled anyway and fall asleep, meaning I will be stuck in the back for most of the journey 2. I often feel queasy in the back of cars 3. DH says that DS just needs to learn when we are in the car, we can't always get to him immediately. This in itself causes me stress and anxiety because although I know we can't always get to him, I don't want him getting very upset.
WWYD? Our journey is mostly motorway/A road style motorways so not always easy to steop, hence DH's comment about not always being able to get to DS easily.
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cjt110 · 18/12/2015 13:06
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