Had a massive row with sister today about xmas (but actually about more than xmas!)
Invited her & her dp down for xmas - she hasnt visited for a year- she eventually said no but it escalated into massive row about her never visiting my dc or showing any interest as she has no kids herself.
I am upset because she doesnt come & see them & we always have to travel the 200+ miles to see them.
She says she loves my dc and wants them in her life but its always us that have to make the effort. I find it upsetting as my dc don't always want to travel- they are little- and feel that it should be a 2 way street with visits.
She said that she has her own life & I am emotionally blackmailing her. I just feel that if she cares that much, she would make a bit of an effort to come here too and visit.
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Bloody pre- christmas row!
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Kiddiewinks2008 · 30/11/2015 17:24
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