DS is 8. He has always been needy and clingy when at home - he'll follow me round the house, wait outside the door while I go to the toilet, won't go upstairs alone etc. For the past few weeks he's been making a real fuss at bedtime. He'll be absolutely fine and happy all day, receive plenty of positive attention and then bam - as I take him up to bed his lip starts quivering and he starts literally wailing. He will say he can't sleep because of x, y, z reasons (yesterday he was 'scared of his radiator'. Seriously.) This is usually before he's even tried to sleep. His bedtime is 9.15 and he's up at 7.15 so I'm not trying to send him off too early. During the day and out and about he's actually extremely confident and independent.
I'll reassure him but he usually just wails and screams and won't talk back. I then put consequences in but his wailing gets louder and louder. I have two younger dc so he's disrupting the entire house. Tonight he started wailing saying he won't sleep because there's too many police cars making noise; we heard one ten minutes earlier when brushing teeth. I reasoned with him briefly then said goodnight and left. He started screaming and wailing. I returned and explained the consequences of him continuing (losing ipad time and football practice tomorrow) and then left again. He is whimpering and wailing now and building himself up to start being extremely loud and I feel like saying I'll go and sit him in the car til he's quiet if he continues. DH is in the house if the others wake. Aibu?
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to go and put my child in the car til they stop screaming?
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hotlinesling · 17/11/2015 22:13
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