My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

AIBU to give this gift?

27 replies

CallMeExhausted · 26/07/2015 14:31

DD(10)'s closest friend just turned 8. Her friend's favourite thing in the world to do is have "special" tea parties with anyone who will dress up and join her.

We have a box of antique tea cups and saucers in the attic that has probably not been opened in 20 years. None of them carry any commercial value, but they are family items.

DD's friend is practically family to us - WIBU to give her a special cup and saucer for her birthday? It seems like a better gift to me than plastic branded tat. Maybe that is because I am an old goat, though...

OP posts:
Report
scrumpkin · 26/07/2015 14:32

I thinks that's a really lovely giftSmile

Report
Buzzybuzzybumblebees · 26/07/2015 14:32

That would be lovely , do it

Report
Anon4Now2015 · 26/07/2015 14:33

Give her a pair of them. Nobody has a tea party alone!

Report
TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge · 26/07/2015 14:37

I think it's a lovely gift. With any luck she'll hold them special to her and keep them when she's older too

Report
mixedpeel · 26/07/2015 14:38

Lovely idea, and agree with giving her a pair (or four sets, though you might feel that's pushing it I suppose).

Your DD could choose which to give.

Report
daisydukes229 · 26/07/2015 14:39

Lovely gift but I agree with giving a set of 2 :)

Report
CallMeExhausted · 26/07/2015 14:42

Oh, a pair (or maybe 4) sounds like a super idea. I think perhaps DD and I will go through the box today and choose them.

Thank you - I wasn't sure about it.

OP posts:
Report
LazyLouLou · 26/07/2015 14:58

That sounds like a present that would be treasured forever Smile

Report
Penfold007 · 26/07/2015 15:00

I think a pair of cups in a little gift basket with some special biscuits would be a lovely gift.

Report
KoalaDownUnder · 26/07/2015 15:05

That's a gorgeous idea!! Do it.

(Friend's mum did this for me - gave me some vintage teacups she didn't want. I almost cried with pleasure, even though I'm more like 40 than 4!)

Report
Bubblesinthesummer · 26/07/2015 15:07

I love that idea. Do it :)

Report
GatoradeMeBitch · 26/07/2015 15:11

That's so thoughtful!

Report
RachelRagged · 26/07/2015 15:29

Lovely idea OP ,,, Birthday girl will probably treasure that. Smile

Report
scarlets · 26/07/2015 15:31

What a great idea!

Report
TheCatsMother99 · 26/07/2015 15:32

What a lovely gift & what a sweet thing for your DD's friend to enjoy!

Report
Georgethesecond · 26/07/2015 15:39

i think it's a lovely idea. i don't think there is any need to add anything - just the cups and saucers is nice.

Report
TestingTestingWonTooFree · 26/07/2015 15:40

Lovely.

Report
RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 26/07/2015 15:44

A pair of cups and saucers, plus some cakes and maybe a little bunch of flowers to decorate the tea party table would be gorgeous. I bet she'd absolutely love it.

Report
Getuhda348 · 26/07/2015 16:19

Aww love this idea!

Report
MillionToOneChances · 26/07/2015 16:25

Love the idea of adding posh biscuits. Maybe a fruity tea, too? Lovely idea.

Report
CatMilkMan · 26/07/2015 16:27

A couple of them with some biscuits is an amazing idea, I would add a note explaining that they are special.

Report
SoupDragon · 26/07/2015 16:29

Pack them up as a "tea party in a box" with other tea party stuff. :)

Report

Newsletters you might like

Discover Exclusive Savings!

Sign up to our Money Saver newsletter now and receive exclusive deals and hot tips on where to find the biggest online bargains, tailored just for Mumsnetters.

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

Parent-Approved Gems Await!

Subscribe to our weekly Swears By newsletter and receive handpicked recommendations for parents, by parents, every Sunday.

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

BrieAndChilli · 26/07/2015 16:33

I'd get some lovely pretty napkins (with flowers or cupcakes or something on), some little biscuits or mini cakes and a bottle of something kids don't normally drunk like orangina in a glass bottle or elderflower cordial or something

Report
JustMarriedBecca · 26/07/2015 16:36

I'm photo snapping this page as this is a great gift.

Report
CallMeExhausted · 27/07/2015 01:07

Thanks for all your feedback. DD and I are going to choose the ones she wants to give in the morning, then make some tea cakes and biscuits. Might add in a nice plate, too.

Friend comes over on Tuesday Grin

I will let you know how it goes over.

OP posts:
Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.